tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post7402597005964194758..comments2023-05-17T07:59:38.526-07:00Comments on AWAKENING: HUM SAATH SAATH HAI?AnjuGandhihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05067542271359917459noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-73609815657838885622009-05-14T23:25:00.000-07:002009-05-14T23:25:00.000-07:00This is a subject of discourse anywhere anytime,.....This is a subject of discourse anywhere anytime,..arranged vs love marriage..<br /><br />Well,i dont consider ur views outdated.not the least.coz,although i have nothing against love marriage,i dont support the ones where people are from entirely diff culture and tradition and decide to shove off the parents and relatives for each other.in 80% of the cases,love marriage is out of a mere fascination,without proper understanding,without proper endurance for the spouse's shortcomings. plus,love marriage shuts out all the family support that an arranged marriage enjoys to sort out the obvious problems of a married life.without any help of a matured hand but the immatured or less matured peers,ppl of my generation jump to the next big step of divorce without giving it much of a thought..<br />also,the live-in relationships have reduced the sanctity of a marriage..<br /><br />reasons apart,these are all the harsh reality..<br />anyway,nicely put.. :)Gayathrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00939303706866631897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-24237812393743974002009-05-14T00:56:00.000-07:002009-05-14T00:56:00.000-07:00Ah marriage the subject of umpteen discussions b/w...Ah marriage the subject of umpteen discussions b/w my mom n myself..I'd read about the startling statistic too, of young people seperating. I think it has to do a lot with <br />'low endurance'..i dont think people are ready to adjust the way their parents generations did. It could be coz they're finanically not dependent on their spouses, social pressures are less, and being a divorcee is not so taboo anymore..<br /><br />I am open to any kind of marriage. I love 'bieng single & free' so much that commitment & marriage seems like they're mllions of light years away :P (altho my friends have begun getting married..brr!)<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by my blog auntie ji! ;) Nice to have a 'older wiser and very much in vogue blog buddy' :) ...Vedahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08957438713561951767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-84483013140837268582009-05-13T11:54:00.000-07:002009-05-13T11:54:00.000-07:00he will shout for two reasons (1) confidentiality ...he will shout for two reasons (1) confidentiality of his profession ( 2) he is a cynic as far as human relations goes. He says he has seen so much in his profession that he doesnt beleive in any relation now.AnjuGandhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05067542271359917459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-5290511521707925932009-05-13T11:40:00.000-07:002009-05-13T11:40:00.000-07:00baby... u r definitely not out-dated...u r in vogu...baby... u r definitely not out-dated...u r in vogue :)<br /><br />but m sure after a hard-time of giving each other a chance...it would still have seemed impossible.<br /><br />wonder what papa has to say...that u have written about his clients...<br />hahaha :)NGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12384891363092343691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-64625668641265749692009-05-13T11:36:00.000-07:002009-05-13T11:36:00.000-07:00Anju masi, i agree. People need to learn to be a b...Anju masi, i agree. People need to learn to be a bit more tolerant. Marriage is a compromise and it takes a lot of hard work. It takes 2 to tango. So its important for both partners to be patient and understanding and to make the marriage workMilan Mehtahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11698054831542766988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1047719215262967478.post-86059327432225196932009-05-13T05:58:00.000-07:002009-05-13T05:58:00.000-07:00I found your blog through your daughter's blog and...I found your blog through your daughter's blog and feel the need to address you as aunty!<br /><br />You are not out dated. I am a college going girl and these statistics scare me. I am scared of arranged marriage and now love marriage as well. Nothing seems to work in this generation. I feel that the main reason for this is because the youth have become very impatient nowadays. There level of tolerance is very less. Most don't believe in compromising. Hence the problems. You are ofcourse very much in vogue as you have what many people desire!!Zebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01231653148423352990noreply@blogger.com