who should die first the wife or the husband?

Disclaimer I have no intention to hurt any one’s feelings or sentiments

While talking to one old widower and another old widow, the idea of this post came

Most of the ladies love and pamper their husbands to no limits, they take care of him (husband),look after his medicines, keep an eye on his movements, monitor his intake of foods, help him select his clothes etc etc. control his cholesterol, sugar , force him to go for walks . In general the wife makes the husband totally dependent on her.

They will rush home after any outing – “he must have come home, I have to give him his tea “

The wife always says “I want to die before my husband, Suhagan marna chahti hu”.

Has she ever thought that if she dies before the husband who will take care of him once she goes? She has made him so much dependent on her, rather made him handicapped to the extent that he will not take his medicine on his own.

Doesn’t she realize that once she dies the husband will be left alone with no one to take care of him, give him medicines?

How can the same woman who can’t bear the thought of leaving her husband alone for a single day think about leaving him for a lonely life without her?

Actually the best solution to save the old couples from depression because of death of the partner, the couple should die together so that no one suffers the loneliness, the feeling of left alone, the isolation and the depression

IF INSULTING IS MADE PUNISHABLE

IF INSUTLTING IS MADE PUNISHABLE

Just imagine what would happen if insulting was made a crime let me list all those who will be behind the bars or who will be punished

1. All the husbands for insulting their wives at every given chance.

2. Rest of the men for insulting women by abusing them (verbally as well as physically).

3. All those political leaders who insult the faith reposed on them by public.

4. All those friends who insult friendship by cheating on them.

5. All those children who insult their parents.

6. All those parents who insults their children by their sarcastic comments or expect much more from their children than they are capable of doing.

7. All those citizens who insult our legal system by violating the laws.

8. All those people who insult our religious values by talking against any particular religion or misusing the religious places.

9. All those women who insult women hood by indulging in acts which are demeaning to all the women

10. All those beggars who insult the emotions of philanthropists by presenting a false sob story and taking alms from them.

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The list is unending

If all these people are punished, our judiciary and legal system will have a tough time by putting them behind the bars

BUT the question is who will punish the insulters?

The law makers, the reformers, the judiciary themselves insult the legal system, rules and regulations.

So if there is no one to impart punishment what is the alternative?

Go on getting insulted and go on insulting others ????????????????