Thursday, December 23, 2010


The idea for this came from DG’s post.

We all know that we have different Gods for different needs/occasions

We have Goddess Laxmi for wealth

We have Goddess Saraswati for education

We have Lord Shiva for marriage of girls

We have Ganpati as Vighanharta

We have Indra for rains

So on and so forth

Then we have some exclusive Gods and temples for Men – only men can worship them, or go to their temple or touch them like Shani dev, Hanumanji, or Sabrimala in South.

But to my knowledge we don’t have a God exclusively for women – a God to whom a woman in distress can turn to. A God ,who will cater only to women.

A God in whose temple men will be treated as trespassers and who will be prosecuted if try to enter the temple.

A god who will listen to the problems of women only ,without any prejudice.

A God ,who will come to the rescue of women who are either the victim of exploitation by men or women who are subjected to humiliation and insults by the members of their own sex—the MILS and SILS or the other women.

A God who will not get polluted or whose temple will not become dirty by the entry of women who are in their monthly cycle.

Talking of discrimination

Women are not allowed to touch some of the men Gods like Shanidev or Hanumanji or Manibhadraji or Kshetrapalji but there is no restriction on men to touch the She Gods

Rather all the Pujaris of all the temples be it of a He God or a She God are men.

These men Pujari do the Puja, change the clothes of the She Gods etc.

There is no restriction on them.

I wonder when it comes to matter of God why should there be any discrimination

It is the God who has made woman, it is he who is responsible for the monthly cycles of women ( without these cycles the survival of human race will not be possible) then how come women during this period are considered untouchables?

I think the women during this particular period should be treated with dignity, respect rather than some member of outcaste group. Talking of the monthly cycles in some communities the women during these 4 days are made to sleep on floor, not enter the kitchen, not touch any one.

The height of such humiliation was when the marriage of a girl was postponed just before her PHERAS , The BAARAT had come to her door, all relatives from both the sides were there. Suddenly the girl got her periods. And guess what—it was announced to the whole group present there that due to this reason the marriage will take place after 4 days as she had become impure and could not attend any religious function. So the girl’s side had to take care of the whole baarat for 4 days and the whole world came to know about the whole story. just imagine what humiliation that girl must have felt

Is suppose there was a separate God for Women the girl could have gone to her/his temple and got married there.

Mr GOD are you listening to me?

Please give some time to the mother of the human race and make special provision for her

(I hope all the other Gods who are only for men do not get angry with me . I apologize to all of them . This post is not written to annoy or criticize the ways of GOD but to request him to give some special consideration to women also.)

Monday, December 20, 2010

better to convert to Jainism ? :-) :-)


with the rising prices onion going to Rs 80/- per Kg and garlic selling at Rs 400/- per Kg it is better to convert into Jainism or take a vow not to eat these two priced items .
atleast by taking a vow we are surely to become close to God ( some people believe so) and ofcourse we are going to save and add to our monthly budget
The day is not very far when people who will be fortunate enough to afford these two items will surely flaunt them with pride in see through bags and the less privilaged lot will oogle at these elite group with envy.

Friday, December 17, 2010

why should a parent prove his love to the child?

is there any need for a parent to reaffirm his love to his children?

Thursday, December 9, 2010

This is our Government

A sattire on our Government
a must read for every one

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

God- Please help me

is it ok to pray to different GODS at the same time or one should stick to one God only? does it show lack of faith in any one particular God?

Friday, November 19, 2010

Why ban only two serials—ban most of the hindi serials on TV

Why ban only two serials—ban most of the hindi serials on TV
read about how Hindi serials are corrupting every one's mind

Thursday, November 18, 2010

MAA KA LAADLA / JORU KA GULAM –who is he actually?

read about the plight of the poor man who is the victim of the proprietorship battle between the mother and the wife

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

one more dilemma of life

The whole life style can change in just few minutes. My motto of life from LIVE TO EAT has changed into EAT TO LIVE

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Won't God listen to us if we pray to him silently?

I just fail to understand if God is every where then what is the need to pray at top of voice. He can hear it even if we pray silently.

Or is it the more we shout, happier he will be and will shower more blessings on us.

We are funny people, it is Ganpati time now, and then it will be Navratri time, then the time for Mata ka Jagrata. or any other Puja in the temple. use of loudspeakers has become a must to show our dedication to God.

Cannot we pray to God without causing noise pollution and disturbing others?

People who want to pray or indulge in Bhakti why cannot they do silently, why do they have to make such a big hue and cry about it and be such show offs.

Will God not listen to our prayers if we pray with low volumes?

The only good thing that came out of all this noise and show off of faith is that the staff of the office got to leave early as it has become impossible to work so it is party time for the staff .

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Height of selfishness

BIG B disturbed over the metro as it will be an intrusion to his privacy.

The second phase of Metro may pass near his bungalow so it may disturb his privacy

Last year it was the nightingale of India who had raised her voice against the flyover which was to pass near her flat

These big shots never raised their voices against other fly overs or the metro on different routes. They must not have given it a thought also that the new flyovers or rail lines can affect the privacy of other citizens also.

Why should they bother after all it doesn’t concern them.

I am sure if someone had raised his voice against such work these celebrities would have been the first ones to criticize those citizens in the name of development and their being selfish and putting self over the welfare of Lakhs.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

we are free indeed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

On this Independence day, I take this opportunity to thank all our leaders, politicians, all the officials and each and every citizen of my country for freeing me from the tight embrace of moral and spiritual values of honesty, integrity, truthfulness , patriotism and loyalty. please read more on

Friday, August 13, 2010

who says we are poor??/

17.8 million tones of food grain, enough to feed 200 million people for
a year, is being wasted because of shortage of storage facilities.
Flower pots worth 50 Lakhs purchased to beautify Delhi .
80,000 crore being spent unaccounted over the Commonwealth Games.
1000 Kg of gold used to make the dome of a temple.
100 Kg gold offered at Hindu Temple
Cost of wedding dress of a celebrity just Rs five Lakhs.
Twenty five crores spent on three days function of a wedding

and we are poor?????????

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Where should the strong one go to cry?

WHERE SHOULD THE STRONG ONE GO TO CRY--- I have yet to come across a couple where both the partners are equally strong both emotionally and psychologically.where should the strong one go to cry or on whose shoulder should he lean on ------

Friday, August 6, 2010

Mera Bharat Mahan

can we proudly say MERA BHARAT MAHAN?

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Let us change each other

In a meeting yesterday someone joked that A woman always tries to change the habits of her husband after marriage and then after some time of marriage she complaints,” you are not the same person I married to? You have changed”

for more please read

Saturday, July 31, 2010

We women are so funny and shrewd  but the men are no less 

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

A mockery called social work

But here comes the punch “Now that we will be meeting every month I will have to buy so many new dresses. After all I cannot repeat the same dress”. And as everyone wears designer clothes even I will have to invest in some new dress every month.“After the visit to some welfare institute we will go to some restaurant and spend some quality time there. This way we will have at least one outing every month. We are also planning to go to far off places—this month we are going to —- (a place just two hours from where they reside) .The weather is no nice It will be picnic cum social work” “ everything is so meticulously planned.” :-)

So now just imagine the scenario “a group of ladies in their designer wear( all new ones bought specially for the occasion) meeting once a month, going to some orphanage/hospital/ institute/old age home in their sooooooo very fancy cars, donating either money or some articles and then after wards going to some posh restaurant to get rid of the tiredness and spend time with friends and then return home with a satisfactory smile on their faces that they have done some good deed and some good social work for the society. After all it is their duty as human beings to help others

for more please read

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

my latest passion

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Change of heart

does the feelings of a person changes with the transplantation of heart

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Eat to live or eat to die

Monday, July 5, 2010

Marriage – realisation of so many dreams!!!!!!!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

To watch or not to watch?

Just imagine a day without TV? It is like the biggest punishment.

The serials have become an integral part of our life. It is like watching serial is a punishment but not watching it is the severe form of punishment.

And tell me who wants severe punishment? so to avoid it watch and then crib like I am doing.

Monday, June 28, 2010


WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT -- THE name given to a relation or the persons involved in the relation

Saturday, June 19, 2010

father dear father

to my father on father's day

Monday, June 14, 2010

Over pampered children make egoistic parents/partners????????

effects of over pampering the children
please do read

Monday, June 7, 2010

Is this justice

read about my take on the verdict given today on Bhopal gas tradedy

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

A husband like Ram????????

do we want a husband like Ram???????? pl read my take on this topic and do share your views on the same

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

If this not gender discrimination ?

do read about the sexual discrimination by the educationist of our country

Monday, May 24, 2010

This Happens only in India?

A marriage can be broken just after three hours of its solemnization

Reason being the girl’s mother forgot to serve water to the boy’s mother

how can the poor parents of a bride commit such a heinous crime of not bowing down to the dictates/demands/wishes of the groom’s family?

Didn’t they know that heavens will fall if they annoy the groom’s side? the girl and her side should be punished for committing such a sin.

If don’t believe me then please go through the following link

Three cheers for the the brave parents who refused to send their daughter with the boy’s side once they started demanding dowry after all the marriage functions were over.

wish there were more supportive and courageous parents like them

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

When is the right time?

when should the parents intervene ?

Monday, May 17, 2010

think before advice

Saturday, May 8, 2010


my reflections on my children on this mother's day

Wednesday, May 5, 2010


please visit the following link and share your views on it

Sunday, May 2, 2010


Sunday, April 25, 2010

Expectations – the killer of relationship

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Social networking sites ——–think twice before posting personal information

Monday, April 19, 2010

Religion — a conflicting issue

pl read about my confusions regarding religion

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Should parents draw a propriety line when dealing with grown up children?.

hey friends
do read the following post and share your views about it.

Friday, April 16, 2010

I am 100 today

hey friends please read about my journey till now in the blogging world

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

God Please solve this dilemma

pl share your views on this common dilemma which all of us face

Tuesday, April 13, 2010


do share your experiences and do read about my fears

Monday, April 12, 2010

What will people say? LOG KYA KAHENGE?

read my reflections on people's opinion
and do share what you feel about it?

Friday, April 9, 2010

Being a housewife and called so – something to be ashamed of???

Why do the woman consider it to be shameful to be called as just housewives?

please share your reflections .

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

daughters not safe with fathers?

pl share your views on this topic

Monday, April 5, 2010

women I am proud of you !!!!!

Hi friends
do read my new post on the following and share your views

Wednesday, March 24, 2010


pl share your views on the below stated post
do visit the link and leave your comments.

Is it Ok for the mother in law to kick her daughter in law ?

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Will following some rituals guarantee a happy married life?

Ritual is rarely practical. This is why it conflicts with the New Woman. It’s not ritual that ensures a marriage lasts a lifetime, it is mutual respect and love, which needs to be in a safe harbour to keep the great ship of wedding afloat.

Saturday, March 20, 2010


To have one child or more

pl read and share your views

Monday, March 15, 2010

which is her house???????????

I read about this incident in one of the weekly magazine.

A married woman with a marriage tenure of 30 years had to hear hundreds of time hear, “leave my house, this is my house. Either do whatever I say else leave my house. This is my house so the final say is mine” from her husband.

After the death of her husband she had to stay with her son. Now the son tells her, “mother this is my house. Please let me do whatever I want to do”.

This is not a case in isolation.

Thousands of women undergo the same situation.

If after giving 30 years of life to the family and husband, looking after the house, working like a maid, cooking, washing, taking care of the household, bring up the children the women has to hear the words, :” this is my house” from the husband’s house then what is the standing of women even after so much education and liberation?

In the initial stages of married life she gets to hear the same words from her mother in law ( if it’s a joint family) this ——–“.

Then gradually as she starts treating her matrimonial house as her own, comes the bouncers from her husband — this ——-“

So which is her house?

Will she always stay in someone else’s house?

Thursday, March 11, 2010



do read my views on the above topic on

Sunday, March 7, 2010


hi to all my blogging buddies

please read my views on the following link and do share your comments on it

Monday, February 8, 2010

musings of a married girl

read the reflections of a recently married girl at the following link

Thursday, February 4, 2010

confusions of young minds

"I was wondering over the effect of movies on the impressionable hearts and minds of young ones. I also realized that the young ones not only watch movies for time pass but they have the capability to discuss the realities of life in turn get more and more confused."

please visit the following link and share your reflections on the same

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

be in other man’s shoe to feel the pain

pl feel free to visit the following link and leave your valuable comments

Saturday, January 23, 2010

THE BLAME GAME we often play

Ever heard of a game called BLAME GAME?

All of us are fond of playing this game

Pass on the blame on someone else and feel contented and relieved

Accuse someone else and pass on the onus of unhappiness to some person and feel happy


Tuesday, January 19, 2010

women keep away

i was shocked to witness this discrimination against women at the airport today

pl read about it at the following link

Monday, January 18, 2010

suicides in students— who is responsible?

Hey friends

do give your comments on the burning issue of rising rate of suicides in students

Monday, January 11, 2010

why is this rape victim denied justice???

If you believe in human dignity then do read the following post and share your comments


pl read my new post at

and dont forget to share your views on this

looking forward to your comments