I am just expressing myself with no offence or insult meant to the members of opposite sex and no one should take it personally but these are my views and feelings.
I realise that all the men will take it with a pinch of salt but a request just think rationally and objectively.
I have nothing against men or sexual needs of both the sexes. I know it is an important and integral part of life and we can not do without it but what perturbs me is the distorted way of satisfaction of this natural desire.
Yesterday read about Shiney Ahuja and how he raped his maid servant
Last month there was a news item about Deepak Tijori and how his young daughter was kidnapped
Last week I came to know that from a busy road from Mumbai in broad day light a young girl who was walking with her parents was forcibly taken by some boys, raped and then thrown on the road side a few miles away.
And if we open any news paper there is bound to be a news item on men molesting women/eve teasing/rape/father having sexual relations with his own daughter?
All these incidences have one thing in common and that is all of them are related to male libido and male sexual desires.
I have never heard of any women molesting a man, or kidnapping a man to satisfy her sexual needs. I admit that there are cases of woman seducing man for her sexual urges but such cases are very very rare but have never heard of a woman taking advantage of her own son (isshtttttttt------ can’t even think of it. Mere thought is so nauseating)
As compared to men the cases of women who have resorted to such shameful acts are negligible.
This raises a question
Do the women are devoid of sexual urges? Or they know how to restrain themselves?
Are male sexual urges so powerful that they can’t resist themselves and exercise some voluntarily control over it?
What compels man to resort to such lecherous behavior and compels him to stoop down so low as to molest his own daughter?
Is the gratification of his lust so strong that man forgets about his status, his position in the society and ambitions, family responsibilities and obligations?
is it possible for an urge like sex and the resulatant momentary pleasure so strong that it blinds the senses, the consciousness of the person that he is ready to gamble his very exisence, his life, his social standing his career, his dreams and jeopardise his progress.
Whatever the reason may be, the victim is always a woman who has to suffer the brunt of this stigma which is enforced on her with no fault of hers except for her being a woman that too because of God’s desire.
Thinking about all this I feel like crying over the vulnerability of women and the humiliation meted out the members of my sex.